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Aren't Real Christians

Why the Phrase “Well, They Aren’t Real Christians” Needs to Stop

Deconstruction· Growth· Progressive Christianity· Spirituality

So many times, during my deconstruction I’ve heard people say, “Well they aren’t real Christians.”  When I hear this, it’s coming from 1 of 2 places. Either it’s 1 type of Christian calling out another type of Christian for their toxic or hypocritical behavior, or 1 group of Christians are trying to invalidate another group of Christians for being allies…
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Leaving the Church

Leaving the Church Saved Me

Cult· Deconstruction· Spirituality· Trauma

Church is supposed to be a place where you can go to find comfort, peace, community, and healing. But what happens when the Church is the one causing the harm?  That was the case for me. I started going to church when I was in Junior High. It started off as something I did with my friends but because of…
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Setting Boundaries

Setting Boundaries During Deconstruction

Deconstruction· Healing

Setting boundaries can be the hardest thing, especially when the people you need to set boundaries with are those that have spent years speaking into your life and influencing you in many ways.  Deconstruction isn’t easy. I don’t know anyone that would say it is. But if you set boundaries from the get go, it will make it just a…
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Christian

Am I Still A Christian Post Deconstruction

Deconstruction· Growth· Spirituality

So, during my deconstruction the thing I’ve been asked the most is, “Are you still a Christian?” Now I understand why this question is asked. It’s usually one of two things. Either its people wanting me to say no so they can point to deconstruction being evil and from the devil, or it’s from people trying to get a gage…
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Trauma

No, I’m Not Grateful For My Trauma

Healing· Self Development· Trauma

How many times have you been asked, “Aren’t you grateful for your trauma because it’s made you into who you are?” For me, it’s been too many times to count. There were even times I would go so far as to say, that even if given the chance I wouldn’t go back and change anything because the trauma made me…
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Religious Trauma

Phases of Deconstruction

The 5 Phases of Deconstruction & Religious Trauma Recovery

Overturning of Roe Vs Wade

The Overturning of Roe vs. Wade Will Be The Downfall of Evangelical Christianity

Indoctrination

The Indoctrination That Disconnects You From Your Body

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Deconstruction

Deconstruction

Books I Read During Deconstruction

Questioning Your Beliefs

Finding Peace When Questioning Your Beliefs

Self Care

Self Care During Deconstruction

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Self Development

Why Setting Boundaries Is Healthy & Necessary

7 Ways to Fix a Day That’s Spiraling Out of Control

A Letter to My 18 Year Old Self

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Life

How to Help A Loved One Who Deals with Anxiety

10 Ways to Help A Grieving Friend

To Those Who Think I Need to Keep Having Kids

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Hello! I’m Laci…

Hi my name is Laci & I’m a deconstructing exvangelical who’s passionate about helping others heal from religious trauma and find what spirituality means to them. Read More….

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Learning to be comfortable in my own skin without Learning to be comfortable in my own skin without shame is one of the best things post deconstruction! It’s not easy, but it’s worth it. 💜
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What’s the worst piece of parenting advice you g What’s the worst piece of parenting advice you got from Christians? #badparenting #loveoverfear #deconstruction #deconstructingchristianity #deconstructiontiktok #deconstructingfaith #deconstructionjourney #religiousdeconstruction #religioustrauma #exvangelical #exvangelicaltiktok #gentleparenting #parenting #parentingtips #parenthood
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